EXOTIC BECOMES EROTIC:
EXPLAINING THE ENGIMA OF SEXUAL ORIENTATION
(based on Darrel Bem's work)
No experiential/family variables accounting for homosexuality.
No evidence for learning theory accounts of homosexuality.


Bem's Theory of Sexual Orientation:
Exotic Becomes Erotic (EBE)
(only applies to a gender polarizing culture like ours)
Factors involved and developmental stages:
A. Biological
B. Childhood Temperament
C. Activity & Playmate Preferences
D. Perceived dissimilarity & unfamiliarity 'Exotic'
E. Autonomic arousal to opposite/same sex peers
F. Erotic/Romantic attraction to opposite/same sex

Similarity attracts (except sexual) Familiarity breeds likeness. (Important distinction between like and love here)

How does exotic (but not too exotic) become erotic?
Physiological arousal can be interpreted as erotic arousal.


Biological correlates of sexual orientation:
i) Genetics,
ii) Hormones,
iii) Neurotransmition.
Is there an interveining temperament? Bem suggests aggression or activity level may predict later homosexuality.

Individual variations and alternate pathways:
A. can enter 'EBE' paths at different points
B. different interpretations of "exotic" arousal
C. conditioning to social learning (minor role)
D. sexual-orientation identify (eg. political lesbians)

Remember: "The only unnatural sex act is one that cannot be performed." A. Kinsey
 

Click here for a link to an APA piece on Bem's theory